So my gr was eating me out and like I felt nothin I mean nothing but then she started fingering me really hard and o my god it was amazing is this normal?

It’s possible you were feeling tense and nervous in the beginning and when she eventually started fingering you, you had finally relaxed enough to enjoy it. You were already aroused and wet enough to start really feeling pleasure.

It’s also possible that she just wasn’t getting a good enough rhythm set with her tongue or doing everything she needed to, but she turned out to be better with her fingers.

My personal opinion is that your girlfriend just needs more practice and you need to help her out by giving more specific instructions as to what you want and what you like. Work together! Because, seriously, you do not want to miss out on how awesome getting your pussy eaten out is when it’s done right. Seriously.

Practice makes perfect! Try having her do it for a little while, then come back up and you guys can kiss, touch, whatever, then have her go back down again. Just change it up, experiment, and the key is to NOT be self-conscious or nervous. If you’re too tightly wound and feeling awkward about having someone using their mouth on you like that, then you’re definitely not going to feel anything.