In the sex advice tag this post lists a few good sites to order toys from. It does depend on what kind of stimulation you prefer. Do you just want clitoral stimulation or just penetration or both? Because you can find a toy that has both or focuses on just one. So keep that in mind.
As for SPECIFIC toys…I open that up for my followers.
What is your number one, all time favorite vibrator? The one that never fails to get you off? The one that you would get rid of your boyfriend/girlfriend first before having to get rid of? (JOKE!)
The Hitachi Magic Wand is a timeless favorite. I, personally, hate the Rabbit and all its knock off brothers and sisters. I blame Sex and The City for overhyping that thing. The Gigi is multifunctional in all the right ways (most of the LELO products are similar and effective). The Silver Bullet is super popular, simple, and cheap. Almost every sex shop has its own version and you can even get it on Amazon.
Ultimately, it’s difficult to recommend a toy because I don’t know what you like. It’s a decision that requires personal experimentation and knowing what kind of stimulation turns you on/gets you off.
How about you guys?
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