hey, i’m female and 17. I have a boyfriend and i think when we’re starting to go direction sex we would maybe start with a blow job. the thing is (i wouldn’t call it a problem) i have no experience. He’s my first boyfriend and i will tell him that. but the actual problem is that when i think about the whole thing my mouth gets dry and i’m getting nervous. not nervous in a fully negative way but i thing that a dry mouth and a blow job couldn’t be such a good combination.. any advice? thanks x

I think you’ll be fine. The nerves will be there, but you’ll figure it out. It’s not as scary as it seems. Once you start going, it’ll get a lot easier.

Dry mouth will not be a problem. If you feel it coming on though, drink some water before, let it stay in your mouth for a few moments before swallowing. Your body will naturally produce the saliva it needs once you start relaxing and feeling better about what you’re doing.

When the nerves go away, so does the dry mouth, and the nerves will go away when you realize there’s nothing to be nervous about. 🙂