Do you have any advice for female masturbation? I’m frigid I will admit, at least a little… but I would like to learn more to help get over such a thing. Btw, I really appreciate this blog =) ty

First off, don’t ever call yourself frigid. That’s ridiculous and such a degrading thing to say about yourself. Just because you’re apprehensive about sex and/or other acts of intimacy does not mean you’re frigid, cold, a prude, or whatever other misogynistic terms you want to throw out there. You are not required to have sex or engage in sexual acts a single second before you want to! You operate on your own time and your own terms – never let anyone else dictate that for you.

Maybe you’re anxious. Maybe you’re a little wound up and you don’t know how to let yourself relax. Maybe you’re just not ready for sex or having an intimate relationship. Whatever your reasons are, it’s personal, and you have a right to them. IT’S OKAY! You’re not wrong or weird for not having that in your life yet. So don’t call yourself frigid because you’re on a sex blog right now asking me how to masturbate. I’d say that’s pretty much the opposite of frigid! 😉

For masturbation tips, check the sex advice tag and stay tuned… I’m going to try something in a few days and I hope everyone participates!