I don’t know who else to go to about this so I hope you don’t mind my asking you. I have had sex. Several times. I have a really high sex drive but… I think there’s something wrong with me? It hurts… a lot… Every single time. Nothing helps. Lube, additional prep, nothing. And it doesn’t feel good. At all. It just hurts. In fact, I’ve only ever been able to orgasm through masturbation and even that has to stay external. What’s wrong with me? Do I need to see a doctor?

I would definitely see a doctor. I would say maybe your partner(s) are being too rough with you, but you said that even when masturbating, it has to remain external, so yes, book an appointment with your doctor ASAP to figure out what’s going on!

The sooner the better so figure out the problem, fix it, and you can start enjoying sex!

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