Yes, you could be crazy. Hell, you might need to be institutionalized for all I know! That’s your life.
However…you’re not crazy because you like it rough.
EVERYONE has their thing. Everyone has something they like that’s different from someone else. Some people want to be fucked in the ass. Some people would knock your teeth down your throat if you tried to fuck them in the ass. Some people like their hair pulled and biting. Some people want to be called ‘Daddy’. Some people like being tied down. Some people like vanilla sex. Some people like threesomes. Some people like it with the lights on. Some people like voyeurism. Some people like feet. Some people like it outside.
I could go on for a very, very, very long time here, but I think I’ve made my point.
Everyone has their little kinks that they like and that’s what turns them on. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. If that’s what you WANT (key word: want) then embrace it! Enjoy and explore your sexuality. Don’t let the fear of something being “weird” or “dirty” or “wrong” turn you away from doing things that excite you (as long as you’re being safe, of course).
Dirty talk and rough sex is hardly a novel concept. There’s an element of danger, adrenaline, that’s exciting. There’s an illicit thrill in being called names that you would never accept outside of ‘play’ because it’s like being in a fantasy. Sex needs to be reinvented all the time. New ideas. New ways to take you out of your “real” world and let you experience different kinds of pleasure and ecstasy.
Pain and pleasure are only separated by a very thin veil. Both stimulate the same nerves, both release endorphins, both heighten sensitivity, etc. There’s a stigma surrounding rough sex that basically says it’s BDSM or it’s women being degraded. Bullshit. Between two consenting partners, whatever you two agree on, goes. And it’s OKAY!
Does it make you feel weird and dirty doing these things because of what others might think? What “society” thinks? Or does it make you feel that way because you feel like you’re letting yourself be taken advantage of, degraded, and you don’t like being treated that way? That’s the question you need to ask yourself. If it’s okay with YOU (and your partner) then it’s okay! There’s no need to feel weird or dirty for liking it. More people are into it than you would think!
Read the article below and see if it helps you feel a little better about yourself and understand why it is you like it. It also gives tips! 😉
Sumptuous Daydreams 