It depends on your vernacular. If you tend to be more crude, then the way you describe things is going to very very vulgar and explicit. Which is okay! That’s great! It’s your thing and many, many people love dirty talk. Talk about all the filthy things you want to do to them or have done to you. Describe it. Using your imagination and your fantasies is what phone sex is all about. You need to have a good imagination and let go of your inhibitions!
If you’re not that forward and you feel a little shy about it, then describing how you FEEL rather than the actual act is the way to go. “You make me feel so good. I love it when you touch me. I love it when you do *this*. My body is aching. I’m so wet.” And so on!
HOW TO HAVE PHONE SEX – the only thing I really disagree with in this article is one of the things they listed as the “don’ts” of phone sex. They say don’t laugh, I disagree. Laughing is really sexy and lightens up the mood and makes you feel comfortable with each other. Otherwise, it’s all pretty on point.