I really wanna have sex with this guy but there is a five year diffrence and i’m under age.

A five year gap when you’re already under age is a BIG deal. There’s a huge difference maturity wise and just in overall life experience. I know your hormones are telling you one thing, but you need to let your head convince you of another.

It’s not a good idea. I’m not even talking about the fact that it’s illegal (cause who gives a shit about that?), but having sex with a guy in his 20’s when you’re still a teenager never goes well and almost always ends badly with hurt feelings. You’re in completely different stages of your life, don’t get into something messy like that. I can pretty much guarantee you that it won’t be worth it. Even if you’re thinking a one-time thing…it is NOT worth it. Look him up again when you’re 18 if you want, but you’re young, try to make good choices for yourself.

You wouldn’t be on my blog, asking me this question, if you didn’t have doubts about whether or not this is a good choice. That alone should tell you what your feelings are about it. 🙂