I really respect you and your blog and I want to keep following you. However, earlier in a post you said, “Do you know how many girls have to push and needle their boyfriends into giving them head? Guys are selfish assholes.” I’m sorry, I really feel uncomfortable when reading this. My girlfriend and I share a very modern relationship where we both are expected to help one another and contribute equally in sex. I respect your advice, but I don’t want to feel as if I am not respected as well.

You’re right. I apologize. I was generalizing when I shouldn’t have. There ARE a lot of guys who are selfish assholes when it comes to sex, but there are also lots of guys who are really giving and love to please their partners. I didn’t mean to make a blanket statement about all men. I was really just referring to the ones who girls have to strong arm a little bit into giving them oral or just any extra attention at all – even the guys who think they’re sex gods and refuse to listen to what their partners are telling them. I was referring to THOSE guys. Not someone like you who, obviously, cares about his girlfriend’s sexual satisfaction and goes the extra mile.

I wouldn’t call what you have a “modern relationship”, I would call it a healthy one. 🙂