So I am 17 year old virgin. I have a friend whom I am very open with, and she suggested using the water faucet of my by way of pleasuring myself. It felt good, but it felt overly stimulating at the same time. Tips or ideas?

Experiment with the water pressure – obviously the stronger it is, the more intense the sensation. So turn down the water pressure in your case.

Also experiment with the temperature – lukewarm or even cool is ideal. Some people like to change it up from cool to warmer once they get closer to climaxing! Or the reverse.

Move your hips so that the stream is not always directly on your clit. You want a slow, easy build up so back off when it gets to be too much and let the water hit a less sensitive area and then move back in again. Do this over and over again until you orgasm!

You have to play around with it to find what works best for you. Everyone’s different, but yes, waterplay is fantastic once you hit it right! 😉