First Time?

I’m about to lose my virginity this weekend and I’m nervous. Any advice?

• Be sure this is what you want and not about anyone else, first and foremost.
• Don’t expect miracles. It’s not going to be that great (the first time), but if you’re with someone you care about, it will be wonderful in a different way – beyond physical pleasure.
• Don’t do anything you feel uncomfortable with. You have the right to say no and to stop at any time you want. Always remember that!
• Relax and let yourself be in the moment. Don’t make yourself a wreck with worrying about how to do this and that and all the ‘technical’ things. Do what feels good, act on instinct, and take it slowly.
• If you can manage to have an orgasm BEFORE penetration, it’ll make the whole experience so much better. Tell your partner that and try to make it happen.

Be safe and enjoy yourself!