So don’t finger yourself then? Just play with your clit and make sure you’re always REALLY wet. You don’t need to penetrate unless your body asks for it. It’s all about listening to what your body wants rather than doing it the way you think you’re “supposed” to do it.
Find something that makes you feel good. Forget about porn. Forget about what other people say. Do it your own way. Hump your hand. Hump a pillow. Rub your clit through your underwear. Anything you want. Find a way to make it feel good for yourself. Penetration is entirely unnecessary.
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