I’m so confused, I have only liked a boy in all my life. I’ve never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Girls and boys turn me on both. I masturbate to all, gay, lesbian and straight porn. But when it comes to been in love I’ve only really liked a boy, but I was like 13 years old, since him I haven’t like anyone. I don’t even have a clue on what my sexuality is. Am I weird?

You might be weird…but it wouldn’t have anything to do with this.

You’ll figure it out in time. You’ll eventually meet someone else that you’re drawn to and it could be a boy or a girl. It doesn’t really matter. If people ask, just pull a South of Nowhere and say “I’m not into labels”. Or answer however you feel comfortable. It doesn’t matter what you say to them because it’s not their business anyway.

Don’t worry about defining your sexuality. Greet everyone you meet with the same openness and see the opportunity. Why limit yourself by trying to figure out your “sexuality”? That’s going to develop on its own when you meet more people and start dating. Until then, no labels, and discover what it is you like on your own time and on your own terms. This is not some case where there’s a predetermined set “date” where suddenly time’s up and everyone yells at you to sign up for one of the clubs or you’re a freak of nature. Don’t let anyone dictate this for you because it’s not about them! Who gives a fuck about them? This is about you and only you!